"I NEED FRIENDS. i don't need a prayer partner or an accountability group or a rocking worship time. I NEED YOU TO TALK TO ME. you have a kick ass pastor? great! will he know my name and be there for me when i have a problem? no? well then, his sermons won't mean a hill of beans to me if i think he's insincere. stop inviting me to a small group and take me out for coffee. quit telling me that you'll pray for me and freaking TALK TO ME. don't get me wrong. i appreciate your prayers and the invites and good teaching, but IT'S NOT ENOUGH." (>>)